A lovely lesson for life

[katiaaaa]

what do you think of this lesson?

A student asks a teacher: What is love?
The teacher said: in order to answer your question, go to the paddy field and choose the biggest paddy and come back.
But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick.

The student went to the field, go through first row, he saw one big paddy, but he wonders....may be there is a bigger one later. Then he saw another bigger one... but may be there is an even bigger one waiting for him.

Later, when he finished more than half of the paddy field, he start to realize that the paddy is not as big as the previous one he saw, he know he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted. So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand.

The teacher told him, this is love... you keep looking for a better
one, but when later you realize, you have already miss the person

The student asked: What is marriage then?
The teacher said: In order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and come back.
But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick.

The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfied, and came back to the teacher.

The teacher told him, this time you bring back a corn.... you look for one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best one you get.... this is marriage.

 

[ali-potter]

in my opinion marriage is big house: people outside would love to come in, and people inside are looking for a way to run out of the house.....
we all should think about it
mehdi

 

[kuida]

why necessarily a big house ??

Can't it be a tent somewhere on miami beach OR in the desert ??

Marriage is different for everyone ... I saw a couple of homeless hungarians who looked more in love than my parents ever did ...

 

[ali-potter]

why necessarily a big house ??

Can't it be a tent somewhere on miami beach OR in the desert ??

Marriage is different for everyone ... I saw a couple of homeless hungarians who looked more in love than my parents ever did ...

gosh,
i would just say that sometimes things look different than they really are.....
and you're right, it's not necessary a big house....
funny cos maybe our parents used to built a family and a forever couple life because love wasn't the purpose of marriage.....
as it's not the way things go on anymore, it's getting obvisous that it has something to do with the incredible increase of the divorces rate in our societies....
we all should think about it...
dimé da mehdi

 

[casse-tete]

beside love and compassion there is the material factor money influences the relation ship in different ways. an relatively easy life would make the couple to skip basic misunderstanding. though i cannot stress that this is a rule.
what concern marriage , you got to be smart and undertanding unless you want to ruin your life , in order to harmonise you ought to choose the way of compromise and be flexiblility . remember that your wife is not your property , she should benefit fully from her basic right to be an individual to have an opinion and to defend it to destroy your day to nag to bring her friends at your house , to mock you to make you do what you do not necessarly like . and in return you should give love anbd not contadict her will , otherwise you are good for nothing !
ooh yeah you may forgot all this when your kids come and sit near you and ask you to tell them a story .

 

[ali-potter]

beside love and compassion there is the material factor money influences the relation ship in different ways. an relatively easy life would make the couple to skip basic misunderstanding. though i cannot stress that this is a rule.
what concern marriage , you got to be smart and undertanding unless you want to ruin your life , in order to harmonise you ought to choose the way of compromise and be flexiblility . remember that your wife is not your property , she should benefit fully from her basic right to be an individual to have an opinion and to defend it to destroy your day to nag to bring her friends at your house , to mock you to make you do what you do not necessarly like . and in return you should give love anbd not contadict her will , otherwise you are good for nothing !
ooh yeah you may forgot all this when your kids come and sit near you and ask you to tell them a story .

come on!! I heard somewhere that slavery is over........was I wrong, hu?

 

[casse-tete]

come on!! I heard somewhere that slavery is over........was I wrong, hu?

defenitely not about slavery, you took me out of context, i was ironic , there is a beautiful side of all this , it says a woman is what she is and we love them as they are regardless of their drawback, we do not expect them to be a copy of us and this is what is all about .
remember when you come tired at home and there is some food ready , when you need an ear to listen to you , when you need a smile to make your day kicked.
and kids of course , its a blessing from her , you cannot get as much love as in home sourrounded by your own family.
you say potaitow , i say potato you say tomaitow i say tomato ....

 

[ali-potter]

defenitely not about slavery, you took me out of context, i was ironic , there is a beautiful side of all this , it says a woman is what she is and we love them as they are regardless of their drawback, we do not expect them to be a copy of us and this is what is all about .
remember when you come tired at home and there is some food ready , when you need an ear to listen to you , when you need a smile to make your day kicked.
and kids of course , its a blessing from her , you cannot get as much love as in home sourrounded by your own family.
you say potaitow , i say potato you say tomaitow i say tomato ....

I do agree ( at last!!!)...
but i didn't get " tomatow/ tomato" stuff..could you explain please?
dimé

 

[kuida]

gosh,
i would just say that sometimes things look different than they really are.....
and you're right, it's not necessary a big house....
funny cos maybe our parents used to built a family and a forever couple life because love wasn't the purpose of marriage.....
as it's not the way things go on anymore, it's getting obvisous that it has something to do with the incredible increase of the divorces rate in our societies....
we all should think about it...
dimé da mehdi

Allowing divorces permitted to reduce some of the figures of crimes.

lol

The probleme is to think divorce before thinking talking when a family drama occurs.

 

[calice]

it's raining right now

 

[kuida]

it's raining right now

It's raaaaaaaaaaiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiining men

or is it cats and dogs ?

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